There are other types of connections. These are, for example, those that cause the desire to always be the way we want it to be, or we get attached to our opinion or to strong emotions such as anger, love, fear or pride. Connections can also arise that cause a desire for things such as food, alcohol, drugs, money, gold, clothes, shoes, houses, cars, power, social status, education, success, to name just a few. Attachment to physical life causes people to have a great fear of death.
One of the negative connections occurs with rejection. Regardless of whether the person responsible for it is aware of it or not, it negatively affects the rejected person’s behavior later in life. Rejections in childhood condition many negative reactions to life. Some people will constantly look for situations in which they will be rejected, because this is a state they are familiar with, so they are strangely safe. Others go through life constantly seeking love and attention to satisfy their hunger for acceptance, but are never satisfied no matter how much they receive. Whatever the reason, rejection at a young age results in suffering and sorrow in the future.
Sometimes rejection cannot be avoided, as in the case of the loss of one or both parents at an early age, and the child’s consciousness is not yet developed enough to explain and properly understand the loss, in the sense that the parents could not have prevented it. Since the child interprets such a loss as rejection, the adult must face it if he wants to free himself from the consequences and consciously change his attitudes. Sometimes rejection seems too minor to cause problems in the future. How the child reacts to the situation determines the consequences for his behavior and governance in adulthood, not the seriousness of the act of rejection itself.
Given that people are susceptible to other people’s influence, especially people who did not receive enough love and understanding in childhood, they are attracted to groups and individuals who impress them with their strong performance and whom they believe that if they lean towards them, they will achieve positive changes in themselves. When they go deeper into it, they discover that the truth is the opposite. This often happens to hurt and young people who are looking for support and understanding and do not yet understand that there are many people who do not want to help them but want to use them. When such a person realizes what has happened to him, he is usually already in the power of a group or an individual and has no strength to break free except with someone’s help. It is necessary to understand that the collective energy of a group, or the strongly fed energy of an individual, has an immeasurably strong effect on the energy body of the person who is drawn into it. This energy is always negative, considering that groups and individuals feed on the energies of energetically weaker persons and thus support their ego and narcissism. Unfortunately, these individuals and groups also live in their suffering, insecurity and misunderstanding, and they also need help to get rid of it. There is a situation where the suffering persons found themselves on two opposite sides, one as a leader and the other as a follower, because they are on the same frequencies.
Just as we have external enemies, we also have internal enemies. These are negative emotions accumulated in a person, i.e. hidden fears, and unrepentant and misunderstood feelings that persistently return in the desire to help so that once you understand them, you can get rid of them. The internal enemy usually prevents or makes it difficult to achieve the goal or positive progress.
Breaking ties is a technique with which you can break unhealthy ties and turn them into natural, i.e. healthy, ones in the most painless, acceptable and positive way. This means that you can get rid of your internal and external enemies. Of course, everything takes time. If you have carried something inside you for a long time as your truth, then you need to change that negative truth. This requires will, determination, perseverance and positive thoughts. In addition, when you change established patterns of behavior by breaking ties, regardless of what is positive for you, there may be strong resistance from the environment, because your environment is not ready to change with you. Then you will probably no longer communicate with the people with whom you were connected either professionally, privately and/or emotionally. One of the laws on Earth is that you attract people who are on the same frequencies, which means like-minded people. This means that by making a positive change in yourself, you will cause countless positive reactions, such as meeting new people, starting a job that fulfills you more, having a more positive partner, and your life will take a different, positive direction.
Start thinking positive. Understand that you determine your own destiny. Sometimes it is extremely difficult, especially in strictly formed communities and in families with manipulative parents, but the most important thing is to never give up and be positive. That positive feeling in you gives you the strength to survive and to change things around you, because the positive energy you project forces people around you to treat you positively or at least more positively.
