If we discuss our ideas with many people, and if these people are people from whom we will not get support and approval, then a lot of negative energy, which is very difficult to neutralize, is directed towards that idea. Therefore, we need to discuss our ideas with only a few people and only with those who will give us support and understanding, and with whom we will be able to sit down and talk rationally about our idea, about its advantages, its weaknesses and what the best opportunities for realizing it might be. It is very important to think hard about your idea. First, it is important to meditate and ask questions from our hearts, and receive answers as to the quality and achievability of our idea. Our intuition will tell us if we are on the right track or if we need to change something. This means we need to connect with God. He knows best whether realizing that idea will help us. We must allow Him to guide us through the whole process from the idea (defined thoughts about the realization of a certain desire). This is when that desire will become a reality. It will be realized in a shorter or longer period of time. It all depends on our determination and faith, as well as the circumstances and situations in our lives associated with that desire. Given that we are following instructions from God, we will definitely be satisfied when that desire is realized. This kind of attitude and behavior throughout the entire process relates to desires that should have a lasting effect. In this case, we are usually thinking about work, and about love relationships or friendships. You should not tell others about a relationship, about the people you like, especially if you have fallen in love at first sight (or at least you think you have), until you’re completely sure of it. Someone else’s envy or jealousy can indirectly and adversely affect your relationship. Everything is energy. The more positive energy you invest, the greater the possibility of realizing a desire.
The next most common reason is lethargy and inertia. This usually applies to people who want someone else to make their desires a reality. This means that they themselves do not want to, nor do they invest any effort or energy in realizing it. The only effort they put in is to tell someone what they want and to expect the other person to make their desires a reality. Such desires, even when realized, have very little positive energy. Realizing that desire offers only a very short period of satisfaction, because the person was not involved in realizing their own desires.
The third most common reason is giving up. In this case, the person has set off and is well on their way to realizing their desire, but extraordinary situations and events occur that abruptly bring up something else that becomes a priority to be resolved. Everything is resolved sooner or later, so do not give up on your desires. If you can’t focus on realizing them all at the same time as you are resolving a situation that has been “imposed” on you (everything happens for a reason), then try returning to the realization of your desire after resolving that new situation. Consider whether your desire and that event/situation are connected in some way. If they are not connected, consider whether you have deviated from the right path, and need to change certain plans, the place or the people that you work with. Sometimes extraordinary situations occur in order to offer a person the opportunity to reconsider their current attitudes and to develop new ones, or to move in a different direction given new circumstances. Everything changes constantly, and if you aim for the long-term satisfaction of your desire, then it is often necessary to adapt to new conditions.
The fourth most common reason is unrealistic desires in relation to the attitudes or character of the person themselves and the period in which that person wants their desires to become a reality. If you want to become a director in some part of a large company within three years, that is very likely an unattainable desire, unless it is a family company and has been built by several generations of your family. Similarly, a long-lasting love relationship with a person you’ve only met recently is not achievable in a short period of time, especially if most of the “meetings” you have with that person are in fact frequent visits to the bedroom instead of constructive conversations.
Desires that people think are good for them, but that prove to be bad for them once they are realized, have been known to come true. Everything that happens and that has been realized needed to happen. Everything happens because our life is conceived according to the law of cause and effect, and at the same time according to a lifelong process of learning how to become a better person. That is why we need to accept every situation and think about it in order to pick up on the message that it carries.
I have always had a great number of desires, and many of them have already been realized. I have been waiting years for some of them to be realized, and I try to be patient and positively focused on their realization. Some have been realized recently after many years of guidance. I knew I was going to practice healing, but slowly my path opened up towards Reiki. Somewhere in my forties, I developed the desire to record my knowledge in a book to help people understand how to understand and forgive themselves and others for their difficult life situations, and remain in love with themselves and with faith in God. I wrote my first book ten years after the idea formed. This was followed by another book that I didn’t even know would become a reality. I also wanted to give people access to my knowledge in a simple way, and so, I started writing a blog, and at the same time my first book was translated and sold on Amazon. Be patient and persistent, and above all positive, but never stop questioning yourself through your intuition and connection with God. As difficult as it is, this is the only right path.
