Education

Education is one of the important factors in life nowadays, because it mainly determines the occupation that a person should pursue during most of his life. Much of the responsibility for the child’s occupation will be borne by the parent, as he or she should guide the child as he or she grows up. This means that a parent needs to understand their child and recognize his or her preferences. Realizing the preferences of his child, which do not have to be focused on only one but on several subjects of interest, the parent should, given his knowledge, help the child to develop in that direction, but not neglecting other child’s virtues, in order to better prepare the child for life. By accepting his child with all his preferences, character and other characteristics, the parent lets the child know that he appreciates and supports him. In this way, it enables the child to develop into a person who trusts him, gives him self-confidence, strengthens him spiritually, enables him to develop in a direction that suits him and he feels his value. In the case when the parent does not look at the needs of his child, but directs him in an acceptable way guided by the situation in the environment or in relation to religion, race, or employment, business relationships, etc. then he endangered the direction of the child’s life for which he incarnated.

We all have a direction to live in order to fulfill our tasks. If the parent enables the child to develop in his own way, he helps him in the realization of his life tasks while giving positive energy of support and love.

If the parent directs the child’s life by suppressing his needs in it, in that case he diverts the child from his life path and reduces his energy. By his rebellion (open or inward), the child must constantly fight between the parent’s persuasion and his inner principles. It takes a lot of energy away from the child. It happens that the child stops trusting the parent and becomes aware that he has to rely only on himself. They will then occasionally show resentment (overt or covert) toward the parent’s persuasions to which they will generally react violently with their own resentment. Unfortunately, this resentment can lead to great divisions between children and parents with whom the child is always right.

If a parent is wise enough, he or she guides his or her child in a way that develops the child’s preferences, while teaching and guiding him or her how to understand the circumstances and life in which they live. Thus, the child receives positive guidelines that he shapes with his intelligence and knows how to correctly conclude and behave accordingly, and remain his own.

Education is always linked to upbringing. Children receive their education in their parents’ home and during their education in educational institutions. There are better and worse educational institutions. It is up to the parent to inquire what kind of institution will educate and raise his child, if he can choose. A parent should always find time to talk to their child about how it was in kindergarten, school, on leisure activities, as well as what the relationship with the children or the child’s relationship with the teacher is like. It is very important that the child understands that he has the support and understanding of his parents, because in this way he will be trusted and consulted if there are situations that the child cannot understand or does not know how to solve. It is also important for the parent to understand whether the child is suitable for the educational institution, whether something needs to be changed and whether something can be improved that would benefit his child.

It is important that the parent knows his child and that he supports and directs him with a lot of love (positive energy), because in this way he helps the child to develop in a positive direction and become a positive person who will also have a lot of understanding and compassion for their children and for people they will meet every day of their lives.