It is also not natural for two people of the same sex to get married and have certain sexual relationships. It is not natural for such people to be assigned children. It is not natural that there is more and more pedophilia in families. It is not natural for parents to beat, abuse and torture children without being punished, and for children to be left at the mercy of their abusers, despite warnings from others. It is not natural for grown children to abuse their old parents. This happens because people have separated themselves from God. No more love, understanding and support.
Children can be given to people of the same sex who live in the same household and who are friends, because it is a healthy interpersonal relationship. Children can also be given to one person if she/he is mentally healthy. Likewise, children can be given to families (mother and father) who do not have children and to those who already have children.
A healthy environment is essential for the healthy development of children. If you do not provide a healthy environment for the child, the child becomes alienated, he withdraws into himself, becomes a rebel inwards (closes and mourns alone) or outwards (aggressive, beats other children). In addition, the unfortunate child enters bad societies (because he identifies with them) and becomes a delinquent, alcoholic, or addict. People underestimate the tenderness and sensitivity of young children’s souls. All souls are built on experience. We therefore need to provide children with positive experiences full of love, understanding and support. If we do not approach children with a lot of love, understanding, patience and support, we create people who are emotionally crippled.
The community needs to help abused children. They don’t do that. Some try, but do not have enough authority. Others don’t even pay attention because they accept it as part of their culture. Still, this is a patriarchal society where men are favored who mostly show their rougher side and very little their emotional side. A woman-mother in a family must give tenderness, attention and understanding, while a man-father must give support, protection and understanding, both with a lot of love, which is less and less if it is present in most families today.
The family is a pillar of society. If the family is sick, then we are building a sick pillar of society. Therefore the generations to come build sick generations, and what it leads to, a sick society and a way of thinking and behaving. The reason for this is separation from God. We all have hearts. We all know that love liberates. We all know that love heals. We all know that love creates and gives strength. Then why did many renounce love, why did they renounce God?
As far as I know, there are a lot of people who have been hurt and abused by their parents, and / or did not trusted by their parents when they are told that someone is harassing or hurting them, and therefore had not been protected or helped to get rid of their abusers, most of these people have given up on themselves. By renouncing oneself, a person renounces God.
Today there are a lot of mentally disturbed, sick and insane people who are among us, in our families and society. There are also a lot of psychologists, very few of whom know how to do their job. In addition, going to a psychologist is still portrayed in many areas as something that characterizes a person as abnormal. Those people who have a problem and are afraid to go to a psychologist for stigmatisation can help themselves in several ways. Here are some proven ones: there are a lot of positive books from people who have gone through a hard life and come out as winners (Louise L. Hay), psychologists who have great books for self-knowledge (Deepak Chopra, Dr. Joseph Murphy) and my books The Power of Human Energy and The Power of Truth, and meditation (understanding and developing consciousness: look on websites, or practice yoga, tai chi, qigong), going to empty religious institutions, or seeking help from religious communities that provide psychological support. Choose those religious communities that you feel are right for you. There are various of them. Choose the one that suits you. It must not bind you to itself or seek material and / or financial gain, but provide psychological help to find yourself again and restore faith in yourself.
The family should be set up according to God’s law, the law of love, then a healthy society will develop.
