Promise

A promise is something we need to keep. If we promise something to someone, that someone relies on our word and trusts us. He believes that what we promised will happen. If we do not keep our word, we lose trust in that person, and sometimes further relationships are permanently damaged. A promise carries within it the positive energy of the realization of an act. If this does not happen to the person who expects the fulfillment of the promise, there is sadness, grief, confusion, resentment, which are actually all negative emotions full of negative energy.

When we promise something to someone, we have an obligation to fulfill it. So before we promise someone something we need to think carefully about whether we can fulfill our promise. If we realize that we cannot fulfill it or we can fulfill it in part, we must explain it to another person or promise nothing. If we cannot do at all what someone asks of us and requires us to promise, then we must explain to the person the reasons that we cannot promise anything since we are aware that we are unable to fulfill the promise given that there are justifiable and realistic reasons for doing so. If you want to promise something to someone, and that person doesn’t even expect it, then you simply don’t need to say anything, because you don’t even have to make a promise. If you know that you can only partially fulfill a promise, you need to be honest with the other person and say which part of the promise you can keep and which you cannot given the circumstances. Talk. If it is acceptable for the other person to keep part of the promise then you have agreed and do everything in your power to keep that part of the promise.

If that part that you can fulfill is not enough that would fulfill the given promise enough, then talk with that person on how to satisfactorily resolve the situation. You may remember of another promise that could completely or partially replace the promise you made.

Promises are made from an early age. Parents make their first promises to their children, mostly without thinking about how much energy they carry and how much responsibility it is. If a parent promises something to a child, the child relies entirely on that promise and constantly thinks about when it is fulfilled how he will be fulfill with happiness and contentment. The child immediately begins to feel an elevated state of consciousness for pleasure and before the promise is fulfilled. If the parent does not fulfill the promise due to negligence and irresponsibility, the child knows this since the children read thoughts and is guided by feelings. Children always give new chances to their parents because they selflessly love them which most parents don’t notice. But, regardless of the fact that children give new chances to their parents to be honest and to fulfill their promises, in the eyes of children, the belief in the parent’s word decreases. Children stop trusting their parents because promises become empty and unfulfilled. Such parental behavior causes children to become embittered, dismal, hurt and sad because parents do not understand what they are doing and such parental behavior is unacceptable. Better a poor horse than no horse at all.

In situations where there are justifiable reasons why a parent cannot keep a promise, he must explain to the child the reason for the impossibility of fulfilling it according to his age. This should by no means happen often, as the child will lose confidence in the parent’s words. If this happens occasionally, and the parent otherwise fulfills the given promises then the child will understand the reasoning and will understand the sincerity of his parent. They will realize that life also consists of situations that are unpredictable and therefore some promises are unattainable. In addition, they will realize that since circumstances in life are constantly changing, there may be a partial fulfillment of a promise or the fulfillment of some other similar promise due to new circumstances. The child’s awareness of life grows in this way. It learns about life from its parents in the right way. In this way, he realizes the variability of situations and circumstances and learns to accept them in a natural way and deal with it in later life without major problems.

Fulfilling promises is extremely important in the whole family, because it means support, honesty and togetherness. If this is not the case, there is no connection and the family falls apart no matter what is seemingly together given that they live under the same roof.

Fulfilling promises is extremely important among friends, because in that way deep and sincere friendship that last a lifetime are built and maintained.

Fulfilling promises is extremely important between partners, because it builds a relationship full of understanding and love, sincere and deep friendship and a strong mutual relationship.

Fulfilling promises is extremely important between business partners, because in this way there is a deep understanding and honest relationship that can sometimes save your business given that you have built a strong trust. This not only saved your job but also the people who work for you and with you and their families, because you saved perhaps the only source of income from which they lived.

Fulfilling a promise is extremely important to you, because by fulfilling a promise you realize how important it is in life. You realize that fulfilling a promise not only makes you happy but you are happy when you see the people around you whom you have enabled by fulfilling your promise to be happy and filled with satisfaction. In this way, positive energy grows in you and you grow to a higher level of consciousness, which automatically means that you are closer to God.