Sincerity

Sincerity is one of the virtues that is valued in people, but unfortunately we find it less and less. People are afraid that their sincerity could make them laugh, humiliate them or cause unwanted reactions in the interlocutor that could lead to consequences that we would not like or would be unacceptable to us. Every sincerity spiritually strengthens a person, which means that it reduces the fear of unwanted consequences in a person. It is interesting that people expect others to be sincere with them, because they want to believe these people, that is, in the truth of their claims and feelings towards them, but they are unsure of expressing their sincerity.

When expressing sincerity in small groups of people who know each other, such as within the family, between friends or in a familiar business environment, everyone is aware of who is sincere and who is not and to what extent. By recognizing insincerity, they accept it, but do not approve of it, because in this way mutual relationships of mutual trust and loyalty are disrupted and destroyed.

With large groups of people who don’t know each other, it’s crucial to be sincere in order to win over the audience. In such cases, some will support you, while others will oppose you. It’s important that sincerity is felt in your attitude and words. The energy you project with your attitude and words affects people, and if it’s sincere, people will trust you. I’m sure you’ve seen a lot of great speakers, from politicians to spiritual leaders, and you have an opinion about how honest they are and how much you can trust them, even when you’re not familiar with the topic they’re talking about.

I recommend that everyone always be sincere. With sincerity, you don’t need to say the whole thing if you think you’ll be laughed at, because you can see from the audience’s reactions that they won’t understand what you’re telling them or that they’re willing to oppose every statement you make. These are either people who oppose you for a reason and you need to start a constructive conversation with them, or they are people who are dissatisfied with themselves and want to draw attention to themselves by unfounded opposition.

Sincerity builds long-term friendships and long-term business relationships. This is how relationships of trust are built, and such people, if they can, will try to help you when you ask them for help, regardless of whether it is a personal or business problem. Sincerity creates positive energy that gives the power of understanding, compassion, trust and support.

If there is no sincerity in interpersonal relationships, trust, friendship, business partners are lost, and people run headlong after people in whom they seek understanding, help and love. Such a life boils down to the belief that life is unfair, difficult and full of injustice, and the person himself provokes these feelings with his personal attitudes. Such attitudes usually come from childhood in which the child did not have the opportunity to feel the sincerity, love and support of his parents. Children are very flexible in adapting to situations, so they quickly learn how to position themselves and react in the future according to how their parents react to them in certain situations. If they are forced to be insincere in order to protect themselves from their contempt, ridicule, teasing, beatings, etc., then they will carry such a protective attitude towards themselves into adulthood towards themselves in relation to the people around them. The parental function in upbringing should be sincere with a lot of love in their attitudes, conversations, behavior, and understanding of the child’s needs and problems. This is crucial for the proper development of the child’s psyche.

Such people should be approached with a lot of compassion, understanding and love, or with their sincere attitude and conversation, explain the wrong way of thinking and acting. In this way, these people are enabled to overcome their negative patterns and start thinking positively, start having faith in themselves and their values, and start being sincere with themselves and others.

Sincerity is important in speech, actions, in defining decisions and their implementation, and in everyday activities. Sincerity in this way expresses a person’s inner strength. It means the ability to overcome all other people’s negative attitudes and actions directed at them, which, unfortunately, are increasingly common today.