Usually there is one strong person in every family that everyone relies on and of which all expects to comfort, support, get out of trouble and the like. Such people are usually expected to be always strong and supportive at all times. They carry this burden either voluntarily or as their personal obligation and responsibility to the family. Most householders feel that they should give to them constantly. In this way, an apparent harmony in the family is maintained. Few people think that these people also need protection and support. If there are situations in which strong people can no longer be a support, the whole family falls apart. Then the wrongly set relationship between the householders is noticed. In addition, the shortcomings of each individual in the entire family construction are observed. This means that all those who have relied on one person are in fact persons without striving for personal progress and personal change in life, and that they expect action from others while they are only passive observers both in the family and in their own lives.
This indicates a poorly constructed relationship of individuals in the family. Everyone should be supportive of each other, because in this way the family develops and grows with full attention and mutual respect.
Strong people are usually leaders; presidents of states, persons in high positions, presidents and representatives of social and religious groups and the like. These are people who are largely ruled by the ego. These are mostly people who are not afraid of anything to achieve their goals, which are generally not good for the masses. Behind their ideas and goals usually lies the desire to stay on top, to be listened to and to rule. This can be seen from their words, their gestures and their attitudes. The more they manage to realize their ideas, the stronger their ego is and they become more insensitive, aggressive, intrusive and reckless. They love to manipulate, and many in a very refined way just to get to their goal. Such people are afraid to open their hearts because they are convinced that by showing compassion and understanding today they cannot be leaders, given that today’s world is cruel, so they must behave in the same way in order to achieve their goal. It just shows how much in the lonely. Those who are close to them try to avoid them, do not support them or in some way try to use them to their advantage. Those they work with are not honest with them and try to use them to their advantage as well. Such a way of life is not good for them or for those around them, because it is a life without mutual trust, honesty and love. It doesn’t suit either them or those around them, but they are convinced they can’t get out of that vicious circle. It’s about being afraid of change, because every change affects a deep rethinking of your actions and the beginning of leading your life in a whole new direction.
Truly strong people are those who have an immense amount of love in them. They live that love and selflessly give and share it. They usually give love to those who have embarked on the path of self-realization, because these people still have a lot to learn. The love they receive is the support and understanding of these guidelines that these people need to follow in order to understand that life is eternal learning, and that by accepting oneself, living in love with oneself and believing in God, only progress is possible. It is the only path that frees us from ignorance of life and leads to the realization of our deep connection with each other. When loving people share their love it is sharing at a higher level of consciousness. Then there is an accumulation of positive energy that has a positive effect on everyone who is near them. These are extremely positive people that you can’t tie to yourself, but you can learn a lot. They are not representatives of social or religious groups, they are not exposed in public, and yet they are occasionally heard of. They are true teachers and if you seek them, because you are on the path of knowing who we truly are, then they will approach you and guide you. You are the one who decides whether you want to change your life for the better or not. You are the ones who, thanks to your free will, decide when to go on the path of love. You are the one who has to stop being afraid of change, because fear hinders progress. Eventually everyone must set out on the path of truth and love, because that is the only path that leads us to God.
People with a strong ego are not born but are created by the wrong upbringing and guidance. People who are strong thanks to their inner strength driven by love, they are born to show the way to those who are willing to follow them to develop into a positive person full of respect, understanding and love.