Child

A child is the most precious thing that God has given us. Some parents think or are convinced that they are the creators of their children and that children are their property with which they can do whatever they want. However, this is not the case. If God had not allowed and given a soul to the body that materializes from the physical bodies of the parents, the child would not have been born. Every child is a gift from God. Parents should think very carefully about how they behave towards their children, because they are given by God to be cared for with great love, attention and understanding.

We are all children of God, because if God had not allowed and enabled it, none of us would have been born or incarnated in this physical body. If your parents treated you inappropriately and because of this you have a lot of frustrations, phobias, insecurities, distrust or even have certain neurological problems, it is up to you to try to stop it. The most important thing is to know that you can do it. You must stop punishing yourself for all the mistakes and errors that your parents made towards you. They were probably also children who were treated inappropriately by their parents and applied that behavior to you, their child.

Most children in adulthood persistently blame themselves for the bad attitude of their parents towards them in childhood, convincing themselves consciously or subconsciously that they caused such behavior towards them. Because of this, they cannot move on with their lives.

This is the reason why most people today feel lost, insecure, eager to bond with someone just to feel love, trust, understanding and compassion. However, since such a person must first start changing from the inside, they usually encounter people similar to them, and such a relationship is again full of distrust and insecurity.

When we talk about the fact that a person must first start changing from within, it means that they must first understand that they are not to blame for their parents’ bad behavior towards them and that their parents’ behavior and attitude were wrong and unacceptable. After that, they must understand that they are God’s child, that they are here because God gave them this and because they must learn and overcome the difficulties that have been placed on their life’s path in order to get to know themselves and become a positive and whole person. People who do not have a lot of love in themselves, which means that they have a lot of frustration and insecurities, are not whole people, but people who still need to build themselves up. Building up is only possible by accepting a lot of love for themselves, which means accepting a lot of positive energy. The positive energy of love overcomes all negativity. This requires a lot of patience, perseverance and time.

Due to many difficult situations in a child’s life, many adults have a hard time navigating their lives and need a lot of help to understand that change can and must happen in order to improve their lives. This help can come from different people, by reading quality literature, changing religion, changing country or continent to facilitate a person’s positive change in moving towards self-knowledge.

A parent can and must stop such bad behavior and attitude, both towards themselves and their child. After they stop them, they will then understand that they must raise their children with a lot of love, understanding and compassion. Only in this way can a healthy relationship in the family be built, and consequently a healthy society.

We are all unique. We all came to Earth for ourselves, that is, to develop and grow spiritually. This means that we all came with different intelligence, different levels of love and understanding of life that we have gathered from numerous or few past lives. If a person incarnated once, we would all start with the same level of knowledge and understanding, which is not the case. That is why we are all absolutely different. Every parent should accept this in their child and not treat them and not behave towards them as if they had to experience and achieve everything that they did not have in their childhood, because their parents did not give them. Such behavior also shows that the parent is punishing their child, because they cannot forgive their parents for their unacceptable behavior towards them in childhood. Such a relationship and attitude of the parent towards the child only creates negative karma for the parent. Due to their ignorance about incarnation, the parent will have to continue to incarnate until they start to behave correctly, with a lot of love towards themselves and their child.

Children are a gift from God. They are born with an immense amount of love and can teach us how to love selflessly. Children always trust their parents, always give them support and love, and will do anything for them to be happy. When children hear about their parents’ problems, they try to solve them regardless of their age and abilities. Never underestimate the love of your children. Children love their parents unconditionally until you destroy that love with your unacceptable behavior towards them. Even after that, they will give them countless chances to make it right until they grow up, and some even then.

Therefore, parents, love your children. Treat them as unique little people full of love who came to Earth for themselves, but also to help you build yourself up positively if you have consciously or unconsciously strayed from that path, the path of love, understanding, trust, and compassion.