People limit themselves out of fear. This fear arose due to the poor attitude of the parents towards the child. The parent does not understand how much his words affect the child’s life and his understanding of reality and truth. If a parent knows how his every word the child absorbs and builds a relationship with himself and life that later defines his attitudes, decision-making and behavior, he would pay close attention to his behavior, attitude and words to his child.
The words that a parent addresses to a child over the years create a self-limitation in the child that deepens over the years. A parent tells his child that he is not well enough; that his ideas are unrealistic and ridiculous; that he should be careful about what he does and how he behaves, because it puts their parents in awkward situations; not to dream big so as not to be disappointed; that life is hard; that they are determined by poverty and misery; that the world is cruel and one should stick to already known directions and so on.
All this and many other negative attitudes towards life the parent instills in his child who generally accepts his attitudes and understanding of life. It is necessary for the parent to understand his role in the child’s life, and that is that the child in the first 10 years of his life absolutely trusts him and accepts everything that is said to him. If a parent instills negative thinking patterns in their child they will bear the consequences. Most parents are not aware of this, otherwise they would not be so irresponsible towards their child.