To be able to change our life we need to know that we ourselves have the power to change it for better or for worse, but we do it. We change our reality with our thoughts. If we think that others are the ones who define our lives, so they will remain. If you realize that your life is in your hands then your flow of thought is turned in a completely different direction. Then you become present. You understand the situations and events that happen to you because you know that absolutely everything happens for a reason. By listening, you realize that a particular event is helping, retaliating, or directing you toward your defined goal. Whether it helps or retaliates you need to be constantly present, because if things move too easy it can be very suspicious, as it is very likely that you have overlooked possible real difficulties. Since you are present in your life, you are aware of that.
Those who do not want to be present in their lives constantly complain that others are to blame for what is happening to them. They are always looking for the culprit outside of themselves, and never within themselves. Your thoughts create acts, that is, events and situations that you do not understand in this way of thinking, because you do not want to. Understanding your own situation drives a person to think. Most people today do not want to think or think in a very narrow and superficial way, focusing on the “now” instead of creating the “now” of their future.
We are on Earth to live our lives, to lead our lives (therefore we incarnate). We can only do that if we are present in our lives. A person present can only be if he ponders, only if he thinks and knows that he is creating his future with his thoughts. By defining thoughts a person defines goals in life. A defined thought creates a future situation or event because it is creative energy. Every creative energy first arises in the etheric state to later materialize and we see and understand it in accordance with our beliefs, experiences and character. Given the character, we have pessimistic and optimistic people who will understand these situations as difficulties or as opportunities.
We create our lives. As he is, he is only a product of our thoughts, be he undefined or defined, be he positive or negative.
If we are not present in our own lives how will we be present in others? A lot of people have a problem not noticing the people around them, not noticing how their words and / or actions (especially negative ones) affect the interlocutor. This usually leaves lasting consequences for the interlocutor. With negative behaviors, the interlocutor feels rejected, hurt, misunderstood, loses self-confidence, and sometimes feels despair and suffering. This is not only bad for the interlocutor but also for the person who uttered or did it, because he does not understand the consequences of his words and deeds. Since we live by the law of cause and effect, such an attitude and behavior will be reflected in the irresponsible behavior of one who directs his negative energy towards others. If it is a relationship between adults, this relationship is very likely not to have more serious consequences given the maturity of both people. The problem occurs when such behavior occurs in the family or when parents treat their young children badly who do not yet understand and are unable to defend themselves from their negative energy. Parents, since they are not present in their lives and thus in the lives of their children, do not understand the severe consequences on the child’s psyche of such attitudes and behaviors. Parents do not notice changes in their children in their mood, attitudes, character, and their disturbed relationships with children or impaired health in their children due to their negative behavior. They define negative changes in their children as a consequence of changes in the child himself, not realizing that these changes are a reflection of their behavior towards their children. Parents in such cases not only are not present but also in a very real and open way show that they do not love their children.
Of course, it is the same with positively directed energy. In such a situation, parents are present in their lives, and thus in the lives of other people and in the lives of their children. Besides, in this way they show that they love their children. Positively directed energy gives support, compassion and love and leads to balanced and happy relationships full of support and understanding.
It is important to be present not only for ourselves and our lives, but also for the lives of others, especially children’s lives, because in this way we guide them in the way they will build their lives.
Edgar Cayce: “What we don’t have (feelings, stuff) we can’t even give.”